There will be no prejudiced “lightweight pistols for smaller hands” stuff in this article. And definitely no picks reasoned by how the pistol looks (although some of them look pretty sleek). If we are to find some of the best handguns for women, we need to take a closer look at how the guns perform. Whereas women are perfectly capable of shooting all firearms, the statistic has it that some models enjoy greater popularity. Many of them are indeed more compact than an average gun, but I’d bet it on them being self-defense oriented. But let’s cut to the chase. Here are our picks of the best handguns for women in 2024.
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Best Overall – Sig Sauer P365 XL
Navigating through the myriad of handguns can feel like a balancing act. Some pistols might be impressively compact, but they pack a punch that their larger counterparts couldn’t dream of. Others may offer the gentlest recoil, but they’re far from ideal for concealed carry. Enter the Sig Sauer P365 XL, a harmonious blend of contrasting demands. It’s an upgraded iteration of the renowned SIG P35 and is an absolute joy to shoot.
The Sig Sauer P365 XL comes with a 3.7-inch barrel length. That provides a perfect equilibrium between precision and concealability. Typically, a longer barrel brings more accuracy but can be challenging to conceal. The P365 XL masterfully strikes this balance, making it a prime choice for both hidden carry and home defense.
With its striker-fired operation, the P365 XL streamlines the need for a hammer. That results in a sleeker design and reduces the risk of snagging on clothing when drawing – an undeniable advantage for concealed carry. The XSeries trigger is straight and sharp, offering a satisfying pull every time.
When it comes to weight, the Sig Sauer P365 XL tips the scales at roughly 20.7 ounces (when the magazine is empty). That makes it light enough for easy carry, even over prolonged periods. Simultaneously, it’s heavy enough to effectively absorb recoil, boosting comfort and control when shooting.
SIG SAUER P365XL 9mm Pistol
$591.99
Price accurate at time of writing
- Action: Striker-Fired
- Caliber: 9mm
- Barrel length: 3.7"
- Capacity: 10rd
- Safety: Internal (no manual safety)
Sig Sauer endowed the P365 XL with a standard 10 rounds round capacity. While this may not be exceptional, it’s ample for most shooting applications. This capacity also makes the pistol compliant with California regulations. If desired, you can swap out the magazine for one with a higher capacity.
One of the most noteworthy features of the P365 XL is its ergonomics. Its slim profile and grip design contribute to an enhanced hold and control experience. The grip is also well-textured, so keeping a firm grasp won’t be an issue.
Finally, the P365 XL is optics-ready. As ready as one can be, for it comes pre-fitted with a RomeoZero Rear Sight. However, if you prefer a different sight or fancy trying it without one, the rear sight plate is removable. In essence, the P365 XL is as adaptable as they come. A great handgun for women, to cut it short.
* Prices accurate at time of writing
Best Glock – Glock 43X
Rare is a top pistol list that can do without mentioning a Glock. And the reasons for it are apparent – it’s a household name in the world of handguns. It’s also undoubtedly one of the most popular handguns in the U.S. (if not the most). However, there are dozens of Glock models to choose from, yet we need to pick one. The winner of the day is Glock 43X, and here’s why.
Distinctive in its design, the Glock 43X boasts a slim frame that measures just 1.10 inches in width. This slender build is optimal for concealed carry while also offering a comfortable grip.
The compactness of the Glock 43X is further enhanced by its barrel length of 3.41 inches. This shorter barrel contributes to its concealability while simultaneously maintaining a commendable level of accuracy at self-defense ranges.
Weighing approximately 16.4 ounces when empty, the Glock 43X is the lightest pistol on the list. Suitable for all-day carry without imposing undue strain on the user, the pistol maintains sufficient heft for effective recoil management.
As a striker-fired pistol, the Glock 43X provides a consistent and lighter trigger pull compared to its hammer-fired counterparts, at approximately 5.3 pounds. This trigger system is standard among newer generations of Glocks.
GLOCK 43X MOS 9mm Pistol
$485.00
Price accurate at time of writing
- Action: Double-Action
- Caliber: 9mm
- Barrel length: 3.41"
- Capacity: 10rd
- Weight: 16.4oz (unloaded)
- Safety: Safe Action (no manual safety)
GLOCK G43X Coyote
GLOCK G43X Lux Purple Glitter
GLOCK G43X Tactical Cow Glitter
GLOCK G43X Cypress Raptor
In terms of ammunition capacity, the Glock 43X comes with a standard 10-round magazine. However, the availability of aftermarket options such as the Shield Arms magazine allows for expansion to 15 rounds. Mind that the pistol is not compatible with double-stack Glock mags.
To add a fly in the ointment, the pistol features no rail. But the 43X MOS version does have one for attaching a light, for instance. Plus, it has optic cuts that allow you to mount a micro red dot.
Long story short, Glock 43X is a great concealed carry pistol for women. It enjoys the customizability inherent to all Glock pistols that became classics in their own right, so you can’t go wrong with them.
* Prices accurate at time of writing
Best Modular & Optic-Ready Pistol – Ruger RXM
The new Ruger RXM in 9mm takes the concept of modularity to an entirely new level, delivering versatility, comfort, and reliability wrapped in a sleek, modern design.
The standout feature of the RXM is its modularity. The pistol is built around the Fire Control Insert, a serialized stainless steel chassis that allows the grip module to be swapped with ease. Essentially, it’s Ruger’s nod to the design principles of modular pistols like Sig Sauer’s P320, but with its own unique flair. This adaptability means you can tailor the RXM to your preferences. Want a full-size frame for range use? Or a compact frame for concealed carry? No problem. This kind of flexibility makes the RXM particularly appealing to those who want their firearm to grow with their needs.
Where the RXM really shines is its grip design. The collaboration with Magpul brings shooters the Enhanced Handgun Grip. The texture strikes a perfect balance between being secure enough to ensure solid control but not so aggressive that it irritates your hands or snags your clothing. Coupled with the undercut trigger guard and extended beavertail, this grip geometry allows for a high and secure hold, reducing muzzle flip and making it easier to control rapid-fire sequences.
For those interested in accessorizing their firearm, Ruger made the RXM optics-ready. Its slide comes pre-cut to directly mount popular red dots with RMR, RMSc, and DPP footprints. Co-witness-ready steel sights with tritium inserts ensure you’ll have a reliable backup even if you’re not using a mounted optic.
RUGER RXM 9mm Pistol
$379.99
Price accurate at time of writing
- Action: Double-Action
- Caliber: 9mm
- Barrel length: 4"
- Capacity: 15rd
- Weight: 23.2oz
- Safety: Internal + trigger safety
Even the smallest details show how much thought Ruger has put into making this a user-friendly gun. The slide stop lever and magazine release are well-positioned, where you’d naturally reach for them. Reloading is intuitive and fast thanks to the low-profile, flared magwell that guides your magazines effortlessly into place.
All in all, Ruger RXM is definitely a great pistol for ladies looking for an adaptable, affordable, and versatile design.
* Prices accurate at time of writing
** RXM is designed to be compatible with G19 Gen 3 holsters
Best Full-Size Pistol – Walther PDP F-Series 4″
Finding a firearm that truly meets the needs of women isn’t as simple as shrinking down a standard model and calling it “female-friendly.” That’s where the Walther PDP F-Series stands out.
The PDP F-Series grip deserves special attention. Unlike some pistols that shrink down a full-size grip and label it “female-friendly,” Walther went all-in with their design process. They scanned the hands of countless women to create a reduced circumference grip designed to hug the contours of smaller hands. It’s not just about looks; the grip feels like an extension of your hand. Add in a curve at the backstrap, and you’ve got a snug fit that ensures comfort during extended range sessions.
Another thoughtful feature is the reduced trigger reach. For many shooters, particularly women, trigger placement can make or break a pistol’s usability. With the PDP F-Series, the trigger is positioned just right for smaller hands. The shorter reach allows for ideal finger placement, making the trigger pull intuitive and natural. No regripping. This translates into better accuracy and more consistent shooting.
And then there’s the slide. Racking the slide on many semi-automatics can feel like wrestling a spring-loaded bear trap, but not with the F-Series. Walther developed a unique operating system that reduces the slide racking force by 20%. The SuperTerrain serrations add both function and flair, ensuring you’ll never struggle to get a firm grip.
Recoil management is another area where the PDP F-Series excels. The gun’s grip angle, combined with a slightly higher hold at the trigger guard, helps distribute recoil energy evenly. As a result, shots feel controlled.
WALTHER PDP F-Series 4" 9mm Pistol
$599.00
Price accurate at time of writing
- Action: Striker-Fired
- Caliber: 9mm
- Barrel length: 4"
- Capacity: 15rd
- Weight: 24oz (unloaded)
- Safety: Internal safeties
Of course, there are features beyond what you can feel right away. The slide comes optics-ready, meaning if you prefer red dots over irons, mounting your option is a breeze. Plus, the firearm includes a rail for mounting a light.
One aspect worth noting is the trigger safety. It’s functional, but some shooters—including myself—find it a bit sharp. After firing off a few dozen rounds, the narrow design can cause a noticeable pinching sensation. It’s a minor issue, but one worth mentioning if you plan on long or frequent range sessions.
At a listed MSRP of $699, it sits on the pricier side compared to some competitors. However, with its ergonomic innovations, reduced recoil, and premium build quality, it offers exceptional value for shooters looking for a good handgun for women.
Best Micro-Compact – Springfield Armory Hellcat Pro
This kitty is the smallest, highest-capacity micro-compact pistol in the world (one of them for sure). If you prioritize both convenience and performance, we do recommend giving this pistol a chance.
Despite the gun’s small size, the recoil is manageable, even if snappy. However, for a pistol of this size and configuration that’s still an achievement.
Another standout feature of the Hellcat, as we’ve already mentioned, is its high capacity. Despite its micro-compact size, it boasts an 15-round flush-fitting magazine, offering more rounds than many other guns in its class.
The Springfield Armory Hellcat PRO is optics-compatible right off the bat. It comes with tritium front and tactical rack U-Notch rear sights. The Hellcat is also offered in an OSP (Optical Sight Pistol) configuration that allows the direct mounting of a red dot optic for a low-profile, co-witnessed setup.
SPRINGFIELD Hellcat Pro OSP 9mm Pistol
$558.99
Price accurate at time of writing
- Action: Striker-Fired
- Caliber: 9mm
- Barrel length: 3.7"
- Capacity: 15rd
- Weight: 21oz
- Safety: Manual safety
The Hellcat is the epitome of compactness, but size isn’t the only feature this Springfielder can boast. The slide sports serrations allow for more comfortable racking, the mag release button is reversible, and the single-action trigger is crisp.
Springfield Armory made a one-of-a-kind firearm that’s too good to skip. Its high capacity paired with ultimately compact, optic-ready design and reliable performance makes it an excellent choice for any women shooter.
Best 380 Pistol for Women – SIG Sauer P365 380
Among pistols chambered in .380 ACP, the SIG Sauer P365 380 has rightfully earned its reputation as one of the best options available for women. Combining ease of use, comfortable ergonomics suitable for smaller hands, and exceptional performance, this compact pistol ticks all the boxes that make it a fantastic concealed carry or EDC option.
If you’ve been frustrated by stiff slides on heavier pistols due to reduced grip strength, arthritis, or simply being new to firearms, the P365 380 feels almost like it was made for you. The slide is exceptionally easy to rack, rivaling the effortless functionality set by the Smith & Wesson M&P Shield EZ. SIG took this feature a step further with one of the smoothest slide operations you’ll find in a .380, creating a user-friendly experience that feels natural right out of the box. By the way, the slide features standard SigLite night sights.
The grip is thoughtfully textured to offer excellent control without being abrasive. Those with smaller hands will immediately notice how naturally the slim grip module sits in the palm, providing a secure hold.
The trigger on the P365 380 is worth highlighting, delivering a crisp, clean break without the gritty or excessively long pull. With a responsive reset, follow-up shots feel instinctive and smooth, keeping you focused on your target rather than fighting with the mechanics of the gun. And the accuracy isn’t just adequate; it’s stellar for a compact pistol.
Capacity is another area where this pistol shines. The hybrid stack magazine provides a 10+1 capacity right out of the box, with an optional 12+1 capacity. The extended magazine option also brings added comfort, offering more space for your pinky, which many shooters will agree makes a meaningful difference in handling smaller firearms. Additionally, standard SigLite night sights ensure visibility in low-light conditions.
SIG SAUER P365 380ACP Pistol
$499.99
Price accurate at time of writing
- Action: Striker-Fired
- Caliber: 380 ACP
- Barrel length: 3.1"
- Capacity: 10rd
- Weight: 15.7oz
- Safety: Internal safeties
And if you’re drawn to something with a bit more aesthetic flair, the P365 380 offers the Rose edition. This special model, developed with input from world champion shooter Lena Miculek, combines functionality with a distinct touch of style. It features rose gold accents and a beautiful rose-patterned engraving on the grip, transforming a reliable tool into a visually striking accessory. But this limited edition isn’t just about looks. It also comes with a suite of added features, including access to training resources, a supportive community, and a custom Vaultek pistol safe, making it an excellent choice for women seeking both form and function.
SIG SAUER Rose P365 380ACP Pistol
$849.99
Price accurate at time of writing
- Action: Striker-Fired
- Caliber: 380 ACP
- Barrel length: 3.1"
- Capacity: 10rd
- Weight: 15.7oz
- Safety: Internal safeties
Choosing Guide
Caliber
As you can see, none of the pistols featured in this article are chambered in .22 LR. There is a reason for that. Even though it is a go-to caliber for beginners and plinking, it is inferior to other calibers when it comes to self-defense or competitive shooting. There is no reason why you can’t start training with a 9mm if that’s the caliber you plan to shoot further on.
Smaller calibers, like .22LR or .380 ACP, have less recoil and are easier to manage but may not offer the stopping power of larger calibers like 9mm or .45 ACP. Your reasoning should be determined by the purpose of your gun. The list above covers pistols for self- and home defense and training, maybe competitive shooting can be added to the lot. If the caliber’s topic piqued your interest, we have an article The Comparison of 22 LR and 9mm for Concealed Carry.
Grip Comfort
Comfort is key when it comes to grip. You want a handgun that feels like an extension of your arm, not a foreign object. Settling for a firearm that doesn’t feel natural in your hand might be fraught with complications later on. If a handgun is too big, you’ll need to constantly adjust your hands in order to find a comfortable position. Too small – and it would be uncomfortable. You need to aim for the middle ground. Also, extended beavertail is a nice addition that will save your hands from a slide bite.
Trigger Reach
Trigger reach refers to the distance from the back of the grip to the trigger. The rules here are the same as with grips. If you can only reach the trigger with your fingernail, then the pistol is too big. With the middle part of your finger – too small. You need neither of those. You need the center pad of the finger to be on the trigger.
Controls (safety, mag release, decocker)
The location and operation of the firearm’s controls are another important consideration. You should be able to easily reach and operate the safety, magazine release, and decocker (if present) without adjusting your grip. Some firearms offer ambidextrous controls, which is a must if you are a left-hander.
Safety Features
All the pistols featured in this article have safety features, even if those were not mentioned. Those are internal safety mechanisms, which don’t require you to adjust anything or turn them on.
Conclusion
No matter which firearm you choose, it’s important to be comfortable with the gun before buying it. How can you do that in an online store you may ask? You can’t, not in the traditional way. But you can head off to your nearest shooting range and try some of them out. It won’t take long for you to get an idea of what works for you and what doesn’t. Spend some time getting familiar with the controls and features of a firearm similar to the one you’ve chosen. With the right knowledge and training, you’ll be ready to hit the range in no time.
We chose the SIG Sauer P364 XL as the best handgun for women for a variety of reasons. It boasts an optimal combination of size, grip form and texture, general comfort, safety features and it is chambered in a very versatile caliber, 9mm.
The majority of pistol models we’ve covered will make a great fit for concealed carry. Primarily, those are Springfield Armory Hellcat Pro, Glock 43X, Sig Sauer P365 in 9mm and 380ACP, Sig Sauer P365 XL, and Shadow Systems MR920.
Whereas smaller handguns are indeed lighter and more comfortable to conceal, their compactness doesn’t necessarily mean they will be comfortable to shoot. As a rule, such pistols suffer from more notable muzzle rise and recoil, which hardly contributes to such pistols being the best of options.
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